How to cope with a cheating husband
I am a man aged 30 and I regularly contribute to different forums and online communities. I found this question on one popular forum called nairaland from Nigeria.
I have always suspected that my husband was cheating on me but confirmed it recently when I found some condoms were missing from our home n his bank statement showed payment for a hotel when I was away on a short trip . When I confronted him his stories ranged from his friend took it to I was mistaken in my counting and to I went to the room but changed my mind n left without doing anything. But his behavior showed he was sorry for about 2 weeks then back to normal. The problem now is I can't bring myself to trust him and my love for him is reducing daily. When he comes home late from work or doesn't take my calls all I can think about is that he is with another woman. To be honest it's killing me slowly because I find myself calling him and quarreling with him constantly.
I don't think I can leave him because he cheated on me because lets face it most men do. I just need advice on how to cope with my emotions cos I m so unhappy and its affecting every area of my life . Sometimes I feel like paying him in his own coin but I am a one man kind of babe.
I just want to concentrate on my kids now but how do i cope with being suspicious all the time n being jealous and bitter and a whole lot of emotions that's killing me.
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